• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer

MSW - UNC Chapel Hill

BSW - UNC Greensboro

"An Unending Love"

This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my daughter, my grand daughters, and my grand son. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.

The Definition of Genius


"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."

The degree of our enlightenment is the degree of passion that we will have for the whole world." ~The Greystone Mandala

~The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.

Winston Churchill

"Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light. Do not go gentle into that good night."

Dylan Thomas


In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"

God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."

Thursday, March 31, 2011

The Army Video the Pentagon Does Not Want You to Watch

From Steve Beckow:
This video exposes the targeting of civilians in war zones, the poisoning of infants from depleted-uranium weapons, the use of the army to build an oil and drug empire, etc. It’s not for the faint of heart. Don’t watch it if you’re not willing to witness some pretty grim sights. But do watch if you want to know what I regard as the truth.  One statistic: 51% of tax dollars goes to military spending.

The Army Video the Pentagon Does Not Want You to Watch

Wits - Julia Sweeney "Sex Ed." Monologue

.....I'm just sayin'..........

 I opened up the online papers this morning to "CIA ON GROUND IN LIBYA".  My first reaction was "Yup!  Git 'er done!"  (This "done" part, I might add,  easily rides along side my peaceful, loving nature.  And I fully embrace it!!!)  At the same time, I can count on one hand the number of times I have specifically chosen to give this side a well-deserved "15 miutes" of mental attack mode!
I had many clients, generally women, who would say, "Oh, I could never be that mean (as someone in the media we discussed)....I couldn't kill anyone .... blah ... blah ... blah!"  My next question would be speculative, and along the lines of asking, "what if someone were to come along, when we were out with our child or grand child, and physically threaten them in front of us .... to punch them .... to try to kill them? "
 Well, thus began some work on the dualities of our human natures....the Jungian shadow side, would now became available to the client for her own scrutiny.  I had extra therapeutic fun in asking the client, hypothetically, what they would actually do in that situation. 

 I might then even say, "Is that all?"  

Or if the person would reply that they are not physically strong enough to help, I might then query, "Well, let's just suppose you were very strong ... even stronger that the attacker ...what might you imagine you might do?

(Let the games begin, folks! ) 

The client's ability to "draw blood" started to become apparent.  In the end, the lesson was that we don't want to 'stamp out' that fierce side of us, but to honor, train, and respect it.......for future possible use if the occasion arises! 

So, back to the news.  I am a very marginal (if at all) CIA fan, but sheesh......there are times. Further, I believe in transparency ... most of the time!

I read about all the furor about Obama's not being transparent during these times in the Middle East, and not telling the citizens E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G!  SERIOUSLY?  Have the shoeple lost their minds?!   Spell it  C-O-V-E-R-T, folks!  When will the common voter get that this part IS NOT our the moment, at least.  That is, if we value our collective butts!

The common voter  ("shoeple") frequently reminds me of an out-of-control, unruly teen who runs their household, and has tantrums if he/she doesn't know the parents personal business!  Entitled, they want battles, forged skirmishes, and acknowledged primacy ..... announced and completed in FOUR days!  You're kidding me, right?!  Knee jerk need for satisfaction?!  Like folks on a cocaine quest!  Okay, I don't have enough coffee to go further.......but you get it, right?
Whether it's black ops or pink ops, CIA or any other necessarily covert group.....I wish them well, and have no particular need to know. We'll all know when the job is done.  Folks....let's sit back and "let go"....not of our power as a citizen, but about an area where full disclosure in the here and now........may be hazardous to our national health!!!

"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...

"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...