MY WORK ... MY PASSION

• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer

MSW - UNC Chapel Hill

BSW - UNC Greensboro

"An Unending Love"

This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my daughter, my grand daughters, and my grand son. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.




The Definition of Genius

"THRIVE"

https://youtu.be/Lr-RoQ24lLg

"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."




The degree of our enlightenment is the degree of passion that we will have for the whole world." ~The Greystone Mandala


~The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.

Winston Churchill


"Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light. Do not go gentle into that good night."

Dylan Thomas

TECHNOLOGY..........

In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"

God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."

Thursday, July 6, 2017

Why You Should Know Your Daughter-in-Law's or Son-in-Law's Family History ~

The family history of the daughter or son-in- law is hugely important. This is because, whatever their issues they have with their own parents, there's a good chance that they're going to have them with you.

If they felt over-controlled by their own parents, there's a good chance they're going to view you as being overly controlling. If they felt rejected, devalued, and abandoned by their parents they may view you as that way, completely react to something that you do or say, and convince your child that you as parents are much more critical and rejecting than your child realizes.
If estranged from their own parents, they're much more likely to push your child in that direction. When your kid marries somebody they're not only marrying that particular person; They're also marrying the psychology of that person and the family relationships that have been built up over the years in that person's unconscious.

They're marrying their relationship to other people and the world. They're marrying that person's sensitivities, vulnerabilities, and the ways that they're immature, unresolved, undeveloped, problematic or even unfortunately, as many of you know, psychologically disturbed.

The more that parents understand these things, the better we're able to navigate the often treacherous terrain of having to deal with somebody who sometimes has a knife to our kid's throat, saying, "Choose between your parents or me. You don't get to have both."

~ Joshua Coleman, PdD 

"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...

"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...