“Evolution is speeding up, not time. Consciousness is evolving, becoming aware of itself as creation's mentor. Children are evolution's front edge. They push at boundaries... challenge the status quo...irritate convention. That is their job...to set free all that sullies the human heart and blinds the mind to the relationship between the Creator and the Created." ~ P.M.H. Atwater~
MY WORK ... MY PASSION
• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment • ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer
MSW - UNC Chapel Hill
BSW - UNC Greensboro
With immense love I wish Happy Birthday to my three grandchildren!
May 22: Brannock
May 30: Brinkley
June 12: Brogan
All three have birthdays in the same 22 days of the year ....what a busy time for the family!
"An Unending Love"
This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my precious daughter Jennifer, my grand daughters Brogan and Brinkley, and my grand son Brannock. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.
The Definition of Genius
"THRIVE"
"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
We're threading hope like fire
Down through the desperate blood
Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
I'll be by your side
Hit 'em 'tween the eyes
Through the smoke and rising water
Cross the great divide
Baby till it all feels right
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
"The degree of our enlightenment is the degree of passion that we will have for the whole world." ~The Greystone Mandala
"The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter." ~ Winston Churchill
Kant: "We are not rich by what we possess, but what we can do without."
"A child can teach an adult three things: to be happy for no reason, to always be busy with something, and to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires." ~ Paulo Coelho
“It is not the critic who counts,not the man who who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”Theodore Roosevelt
TECHNOLOGY..........
In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"
God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."
Sunday, August 9, 2015
"WHAT DO THE KOCH BROTHERS WANT?"
Friday, August 7, 2015
Statement by Vice President Biden on the 50th Anniversary of the Voting Rights Act - Barack Obama | Government News from the White House and Congress - Senate/House of Representatives
Why Jeb Bush's Pitch to the Koch Brothers Should Scare You | Alternet
How scary is that? Well, perhaps secondary to his claiming, "My father is the greatest man alive."
A son's loyalty to his father is great to see. However, one wonders if "Jeb" is operating from a sense of reality. His calmly stated, lluminati-gilded, silver spoon presentation also thinks that "poor women should get their life together and find a husband". And then there's this:
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Wednesday, August 5, 2015
Narcissistic Personalities Love to Take Advantage of "Fixers"
Cracking the code on curiosity | GreatKids
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Tuesday, August 4, 2015
HO'OPONOPONO...The essential meditation and therapy.
I did not discover Ho'Oponopono until some years into my clinical profession. Simply pronouncing the word seemed somewhat odd; seeing it as a therapy tool seemed even a bit of a stretch. A stretch, I thought, especially when working primarily with adolescent males, to whom "touchy feely" or anything akin to meditation was eyebrow raising. These young men had histories of abandonment, assaults on their abilities to feel espcially in front of peers, and a fundamental lack of belief in their inherent goodness.
Once, when I was unprepared for a group due to a plethora of crises on a unit, I thought I would present Ho'Oponopono in a simple form. My guilty expectation was that it might fall flat with them. But...the group and evening turned out quite differently.
Initially, they were cautious, glancing at other group members to evaluate each others' responses ... as only teens can do (!). In my corner was the fact that this was the last group before their bedtime, so a slight sense of the day's closure was present.
They responded like they loved it. I, somewhat more skeptical, thought it would be interesting to see what evolved in their chatter after that.
There was no chatter. Egoistically, I thought, I was right.
But two minutes into group, they asked if we could do "that 'HoPo' again"...And night after noight, the same. It became an anticipated ritual. It was one that was completely compatible with their individual senses of faith. But more than that, the exercise is about culpabilty and personal responsibility
with a deepest of reverence for the human.
Ho'oponopono means to make right. Essentially, it means to make it right with the ancestors, or to make right with the people with whom you have relationships. We believe that the original purpose of Ho'oponopono was to correct the wrongs that had occurred in someone's life including Hala (to miss the thing aimed for, or to err, to disobey) and Hewa (to go overboard or to do something to excess) which were illusions, and even 'Ino (to do harm, implying to do harm to someone with hate in mind), even if accidental.
- Bring to mind anyone with whom you do not feel total alignment or support, etc.
- In your mind's eye, construct a small stage below you
- Imagine an infinite source of love and healing flowing from a source above the top of your head (from your Higher Self), and open up the top of your head, and let the source of love and healing flow down inside your body, fill up the body, and overflow out your heart to heal up the person on the stage. Be sure it is all right for you to heal the person and that they accept the healing.
- When the healing is complete, have a discussion with the person and forgive them, and have them forgive you.
- Next, let go of the person, and see them floating away. As they do, cut the aka cord that connects the two of you (if appropriate). If you are healing in a current primary relationship, then assimilate the person inside you.
- Do this with every person in your life with whom you are incomplete, or not aligned.
The final test is, can you see the person or think of them without feeling any negative emotions. If you do feel negative emotions when you do, then do the process again.
Friday, July 31, 2015
How Donald Trump Is Causing the 5 Stages of Republican Grief | Alternet
Cheney's Halliburton killing babies. Where are the pro-life rallies?
"In most places, detecting a grave risk to children would inspire people to name a street for you. But in Vernal, a town literally built by oil, raising questions about the safety of fracking will brand you a traitor and a target."CLICK TO READ MORE
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
"How to catch a falling son" | GreatKids
Empathy's poster child | GreatKids
Tuesday, July 28, 2015
The Koch Brothers are About to Destroy Veterans' Health Care and No One Knows About It
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Paul Krugman: Republicans are “determined to learn nothing from experience” - Salon.com
GOP "responded to the utter failure of free-market orthodoxy by digging in even deeper"......
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Men who harass women online are quite literally losers, new study finds - The Washington Post
Saturday, July 18, 2015
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WE PETITION THE OBAMA ADMINISTRATION TO:
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The Minds of Abused and Alienated Children | Psychology Today
Stockholm Syndrome: The Psychological Mystery of Loving an Abuser
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Wednesday, July 15, 2015
Bernie Sanders and Changing Our Society
Bernie Sanders and Changing Our Society
Monday, July 13, 2015
Stunning (Josh Groban-Sarah Brightman)
The Prayer - Andrea Bocelli----For B, forever...never to be blocked...
White House proposes to piss off Republican Congress, fix Medicare rates for certain procedures
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Sunday, July 12, 2015
GASLIGHTING: Toxic Abuse
This Is What Global Warming Looks Like.... ~ DAILY KOS ~
Friday, July 10, 2015
Bernie Sanders Breaks 20% in a National Poll for the First Time; Gaining Support Across Demographics
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Wednesday, July 8, 2015
10 Ways Introverts Interact Differently With The World
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Tuesday, July 7, 2015
Big Pharma Promises Men Endless Youth With Drug That May Cause Clots, Heart Problems, Suicide | Alternet
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Monday, July 6, 2015
Dear GOP, here's how you change a law
Trump must disclose profits from Trump University, court rules
Racketeering lawsuit charges Trump defrauded students
CLICK HERE TO READ:Trump must disclose profits from Trump University, court rulesSaturday, July 4, 2015
The Real Reasons Bernie Sanders is Transforming the Election: Here’s Why He Galvanizes the Left | Alternet
When Slavery Won’t Die: The Oppressive Biblical Mentality America Can't Shake | Alternet
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Friday, July 3, 2015
Anti-Intellectualism and the "Dumbing Down" of America | Psychology Today
Anti-Intellectualism and the "Dumbing Down" of America | Psychology Today
Anti-intellectualism Is Killing America | Psychology Today
Anti-intellectualism Is Killing America | Psychology Today
How I Got PTSD From My Marriage | Alternet
How I Got PTSD From My Marriage | Alternet
Neuroscientist: Why It's Dangerously Wrong to Approach Addiction as a Kind of Disease | Alternet
Neuroscientist: Why It's Dangerously Wrong to Approach Addiction as a Kind of Disease | Alternet
As Fox News mourns, the rest of us have an Independence Day to celebrate - Salon.com
Marriage equality arrives! The Confederate flag (almost) departs! Toast with some #oreillytears, and enjoy the 4th !!
As Fox News mourns, the rest of us have an Independence Day to celebrate - Salon.com
Bobby Jindal has no shame: This charlatan belongs nowhere near the White House - Salon.com
In a presidential field full of cranks, crackpots and demagogues, Louisiana's governor is one of the worst .....
CLICK HERE TO READ WHY....Thursday, June 25, 2015
The Narcissistic Family Tree | Psychology Today
47 Percent of Americans Would Vote for a Socialist: Gallup Poll | Alternet
Sunday, June 7, 2015
Fox News: A Crackpot Network That Doesn't Recognize America. | Alternet
Tuesday, June 2, 2015
EXCELLENT VIDEO:"The great porn experiment" | Gary Wilson | TEDxGlasgow
In response to Philip Zimbardo's "The Demise of Guys?" TED talk, Gary Wilson asks whether our brains evolved to handle the hyperstimulation of today's Internet enticements. He also discusses the disturbing symptoms showing up in some heavy Internet users, the surprising reversal of those symptoms, and the science behind these 21st century phenomena.
More About Gary Wilson
Gary is host of www.yourbrainonporn.com. The site arose in response to a growing demand for solid scientific information by heavy Internet erotica users experiencing perplexing, unexpected effects: escalation to more extreme material, concentration difficulties, sexual performance problems, radical changes in sexual tastes, social anxiety, irritability, inability to stop, and obsessive-compulsive symptoms.
As a physiology teacher with a particular interest in the latest neuroscience discoveries, Gary was aware that their symptoms might be the result of addiction-related brain changes. Applying the website's concepts of brain plasticity, many former users have braved withdrawal, reversed their symptoms and restored normal sexual responsiveness.
The site has been linked to from hundreds of threads in forums from over thirty countries, with posts numbering in the thousands. Gary blogs for "Psychology Today" and "The Good Men Project" on the extreme plasticity of adolescent brains, the evolutionary context for today's flood of novel cyber "mates," and the neurochemical reasons why superstimulating Internet delivery has unexpected effects on the brain.
Many thanks to Pat Somers of Slow Moving Pictures for the skillful editing of this video.
OUTSTANDING VIDEO! "Why I stopped watching porn" | Ran Gavrieli | TEDxJaffa
Ran Gavrieli lives in Tel Aviv and studies gender at Tel Aviv University. He works with youth and adults all over the country in sex and gender studies and in building positive self image in a world inundated by sexual imagery with negative connotations.
Ran writes and lectures about emotional and physical safe sex; porn and porn-influenced cultural damages; gender and power relations; and sex and intimacy.
Friday, May 29, 2015
10 Crucial Issues Most Politicians—Except Bernie Sanders—Lie About | Alternet
Sunday, May 24, 2015
The Physics of Near-Death Experiences: A Five-Phase Theory© Y MAUREEN VENSELAAR, PhD
Maureen Venselaar, PhD
Venselaar is a teacher and independent researcher and, for almost 20 years, has been a “spiritual/mental” coach in an institution for elderly and sick people in Delft, The Netherlands. For five years she has been president of VGVZ (in the region of Rotterdam, The Hague, and Leiden), an organization that supports spiritual/mental coaches who work in caregiving institutions such as hospitals. The NDE study took ten years. You can contact Maureen through her website atwww.debijnadoodontrafeld.nl (via the webmaster).CLICK HERE TO READ MORE...
Sunday, May 10, 2015
One: Essential Writings on Nonduality: Jerry Katz: 9781591810537: Amazon.com: Books
Uplifting Reading from Onenessforall.com
What Makes a Hero: Joseph Campbell’s Seminal Monomyth Model for the Eleven Stages of the Hero’s Journey, Animated | Brain Pickings
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Saturday, May 9, 2015
Wounded: The Battle Back Home, Full-Length Preview
Why it’s Crucial for Women to Heal the Mother Wound | Womb Of Light
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10 Obnoxious Right-Wing Moralists Who Were Caught With Their Pants Down | Alternet
Thursday, May 7, 2015
LENGTHY, BUT EXCELLENT! "You" Don't Exist: Why an Enduring Self Is a Delusion
Wednesday, May 6, 2015
Friday, May 1, 2015
Stephen Hawking's Dire Warning: Humanity Won't Last Another 1,000 Years on Earth | Alternet
The Baltimore Police Department's Insane Explanation For Why Freddie Gray Is Dead | Alternet
I can only imagine the kind of siege mentality that prevails within the Baltimore Police Department right now. Not only are the city's residents protesting daily (and on one night those protests turned violent), but reporters from around the country are now examining the force's less-than-stellar record when it comes to cases of abuse and brutality, and who knows what they'll find. There's little doubt that some time soon the city's leadership will demand investigations, commissions, or some kind of effort that could lead to serious reform of the department. At a time like this, it may be understandable if the police brass isn't quite thinking straight. Which would be one explanation...., CLICK HERE TO READ MORE...
Elvis Summers Builds Tiny House for Homeless Neighbor in Los Angeles : People.com
That's the question Elvis Summers asked his new friend Smokie. Summers and Irene "Smokie" McGhee had struck up a casual friendship as McGhee, 60, stopped by his apartment most mornings to collect recyclables and chat. CLICK TO CONTINUE READING
Thursday, April 30, 2015
Optogentics Allows Neuroscientists to Turn Fear Off and On | Psychology Today
"Webster's Dictionary defines fear as, "an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat." When was the last time you experienced fear? Is there are a person, place, or activity that fills you with fear? How do you cope with your fear?
As an endurance athlete....... " CLICK HERE TO READ MORE
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
Eight Mental Abuse Tactics Narcissists Use on Spouses | The Exhausted Woman
How To Read People Like an FBI Profiler | Psych Central
"What do you make of a neighbor who’s married, has kids, dresses in a suit daily, rarely misses a day of work, has a well-groomed lawn and a tidy home, is friendly and polite, always asks about your day and your children, and even shovels your snow when you’re out of town? Most people would think this is the best neighbor on the block......"So you may be surprised to learn that... CLICK HERE to CONTINUE
Sunday, April 26, 2015
Is the Carpool Swimming With Narcissists? | Psychology Today
Meredith Resnick L.C.S.W.
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The Narcissistic Family Tree | Psychology Today
"Clinical experience and research show that adult children of narcissists have a difficult time putting their finger on what is wrong, because denial is rampant in thenarcissistic family system...."
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Chicken Safety | Chicken Contamination - Consumer Reports
Obama ~ White House Correspondents' Dinner ~ NAILED IT!!
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Friday, April 24, 2015
'Just Say No' to the Gateway Theory of Pot - The Atlantic
"Many young adults remember their childhood participation in Drug Abuse Resistance Education, better known by the acronym "D.A.R.E." One of the program's core messages—along with the idea that you should always shout "NO!" when offered some "really cool drugs to smoke"—is that marijuana is a "gateway" to all sorts of other substances. D.A.R.E's effectiveness was later called into question, and its curriculum overhauled, but the legend remains: One toke, and before long you're living a less-accented version of Trainspotting." READ MORE
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Monday, April 20, 2015
3 Reasons You Can’t Win with a Narcissist | World of Psychology
About Sarah Newman, MA
Sarah Rae Newman is an Associate Editor at Psych Central and a mental health and science blogger. She has an MA in psychology from the New School for Social Research and an MFA in writing from CCNY. She is the author of the book The Fog of Paranoia: A Sister's Journey through Her Brother's Schizophrenia.CLICK HERE TO READ ARTICLE
Sunday, April 19, 2015
Stephen King lets Ted Cruz and Marco Rubio have it - Salon.com
In a brilliant tweet, the horror master perfectly sums up the state of the 2016 presidential race..
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