“Evolution is speeding up, not time. Consciousness is evolving, becoming aware of itself as creation's mentor. Children are evolution's front edge. They push at boundaries... challenge the status quo...irritate convention. That is their job...to set free all that sullies the human heart and blinds the mind to the relationship between the Creator and the Created." ~ P.M.H. Atwater~
MY WORK ... MY PASSION
• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment • ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer
MSW - UNC Chapel Hill
BSW - UNC Greensboro
With immense love I wish Happy Birthday to my three grandchildren!
May 22: Brannock
May 30: Brinkley
June 12: Brogan
All three have birthdays in the same 22 days of the year ....what a busy time for the family!
"An Unending Love"
This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my precious daughter Jennifer, my grand daughters Brogan and Brinkley, and my grand son Brannock. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.
The Definition of Genius
"THRIVE"
"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
We're threading hope like fire
Down through the desperate blood
Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
I'll be by your side
Hit 'em 'tween the eyes
Through the smoke and rising water
Cross the great divide
Baby till it all feels right
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
"The degree of our enlightenment is the degree of passion that we will have for the whole world." ~The Greystone Mandala
"The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter." ~ Winston Churchill
Kant: "We are not rich by what we possess, but what we can do without."
"A child can teach an adult three things: to be happy for no reason, to always be busy with something, and to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires." ~ Paulo Coelho
“It is not the critic who counts,not the man who who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”Theodore Roosevelt
TECHNOLOGY..........
In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"
God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Perceptual Experiment/Science and Fluid Intelligence
http://www.personalgrowthcourses.net/video/perceptual_experiment
- Stanford University's neuropsychologist Karl Pribram and his in-depth studies of the holographic qualities of consciousness.
- University of Connecticut Psychologist Kenneth Ring who completed breakthrough studies of near-death experiences.
- Dr. Hal Puthoff and Russell Targ (see his excellent paper) of Stanford Research Institute in their copious studies of remote viewing and nonlocality.
- UCLA's Valerie Hunt in her systematic studies of human energy fields and measurable psychic phenomena.
- Dr. Bruce Lipton's pioneering cell biology research suggesting that contrary to popular belief, genes are not the primary regulators of life. Rather the way we perceive our life and world may be a key factor in determining gene activity.
- Princeton University's PEAR Laboratory (now closed) which established the ability of consciousness to interact with physical matter.
- Robert Monroe, founder of the Monroe Institute which teaches methods to achieve out of body experiences and remote viewing (see his landmark bookFar Journeys).
- The many pioneers of quantum physics who are finding that for deeper understanding of our world, it may be impossible to separate the physical world from consciousness.
Sacred Cows
"The degree of our enlightenment is the degree of passion that we will have for the entire world."~Greystone Mandala~
True character, and its usual attributes are slipping away. I look at the children in my sphere with both joy and sadness. The deficit, when it really comes down to it, is the least of their problems. With parents and extended systems, who continually lie, cheat, plunder, and believe that they have succeeded without realizing how many backs they have climbed over ... well, I'll say no more. You get it!
You may or may not like Michael Moore. At the very least he speaks a BUNCH of truth...which is the predominant reason for his rejection by those who are materialistically insatiable, who have little compassion for truth and for every soul with which they inhabit this earth. I found this letter to be spot on. ..compelling. (Unless the reader cannot handle true facts.) You can make your own decision, of course. One of my outreach goals is to offer information which perhaps the busy person of today misses out on. "
I congratulate Moore on creating a forum for those youth whose voices, opinions...MUST be heard....MUST be affirmed ... MUST be considered for their own truths.
How inspired are you by the thousands of students from Wisconsin high schools who began walking out of class four days ago and have now occupied the State Capitol building and its grounds in Madison, demanding that the governor stop his assault on teachers and other government workers? I have to say it's one of the most exciting things I've seen in years.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
"Transform Fear Through Core Issue Work" from Want To Know.com
- Abandonment – Nobody cares about me. I'm all alone. I don't matter.
- Arrogance – I'm better than all of you. I'm too much. I'm right and you're wrong.
- Damaged – Something is wrong with me. I'm a failure. I'm damaged.
- Inferiority – I'm not good enough. I'm stupid. I'm worthless. I'm boring. I'm hopeless.
- Rejection – I'm a burden. I'm unwanted. Nobody wants to spend time with me.
- Shame – I'm bad. I'm evil. I'm a mistake. I'm a monster. I'm disgusting. I'm possessed.
- Abandonment – Always need to be included, join everything to avoid deeper feelings.
- Arrogance – Act very humble, hiding their deeper belief that no one can match them.
- Damaged – Present themselves as always great, avoid talking about their problems.
- Inferiority – Macho, domineering, need to prove they are better than others.
- Rejection – Present themselves as incredibly desirable, yet reject others easily.
- Shame – Overly nice and giving. Overcompetency. Secretly fear being exposed as fraud.
- Abandonment – I am worthy of love. I can find ways to safely share myself with others.
- Arrogance – I can learn from all around me. I can see goodness in everyone I meet.
- Damaged – I am whole and complete just as I am. I can choose to love all of me.
- Inferiority – I am a good, valuable person. I can make meaningful contributions to the world.
- Rejection – I am an attractive, interesting person. People can enjoy getting to know me.
- Shame – I can be gentle with myself. I can hold the best intentions for all deep in my heart.
"There Is Still No Such Thing as Socialsecuritymedicareandmedicaid!"
There Is Still No Such Thing As Socialsecuritymedicareandmedicaid
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
"Fear and Changing Times" by Ken Page & Nancy Nestor
We've been getting a lot of emails, session questions and calls that ask why people around us are changing. The most out of control feelings we might have is when a loved one, or person you are with, changes the way they feel about you. It brings up so many fears - rejection, abandonment and disappointment to name a few. Perhaps you might even be angry at yourself because you just became aware that the other person feels differently about you than you had thought.
No, for there is a lot of misinformation out there;
Do we fit into the way most religions believe?
No, there is so much more to creation than they teach;
Do we fit in with the way others want to hold us?
No, because we don't believe there are limitations to the way any of us are.
Do we fit into any place that would not allow us to be who we are?
No, for we would not want to be there anyway.
Many Blessings,
Ken and Nancy
Law of Attraction-Quantum Physics Guide from MindBridge
http://www.mindbridge-loa.com
Monday, February 14, 2011
"Do you think about what you buy?
FOR EXAMPLE, THE "OUR FAMILY" BRAND OF THEMANDARINORANGES SAYS RIGHT ON THE CAN FROM CHINA . SO, FOR A FEW MORE CENTS you can buy LIBERTY GOLD BRAND OR THE DOLE IS FROM CALIFORNIA .
ALSO WATCH FOR PICKLES. A LOT OF THE NO-NAME PICKLES COME FROM INDIA . BICK'S ARE FROM CANADA. WORTH THE SMALL DIFFERENCE IN PRICE.
Next to them were President Choice brand. Produce of Canada
the Chinese export inferior and even toxic products and dangerous toys
and goods to be sold in North American markets.
were made here for many years. Thermos sold out in the 1990's and now
the bottles that keep our food warm or cold are now made in CHINA .. We
Lost---about 200 jobs!
If
200 million North Americans refuse to buy just $20 each of Chinese
goods, that's a billion dollar trade imbalance resolved in our favour...
fast!!
solution? Let's give them fair warning and send our own message. Most
of the people who have been reading about this matter are
That
is only one month of trading losses, but it will hit the Chinese for
1/12th of the total, or 8%, of their North American exports. Then they
will at least have to ask themselves if the benefits of their arrogance
and lawlessness were worth it.
this message to everybody you know. Let's show that we are intelligent
Canadians/Americans, and NOBODY can take us for granted.
Saturday, February 12, 2011
"Ushering Wellness: The Convergence of Buddhism and Psychanalysis"
The same is true for psychoanalysis. What was once a stigmatized option for the mentally ill and affluent, therapy -- at least in most urban settings -- is today almost a rite of passage. It's the rare New Yorker who has made it through the various travails of contemporary life -- finishing one's formal education, finding a partner, making a living -- without seeking some form of psychoanalytic support. Add to these pervasive struggles the distressing issue of terrorism, the rise of childhood diseases including autism and leukemia and the onslaught of stimulation from advances in technology, and you have a population increasingly eager for help in finding psychological and spiritual wellness.
What has changed in recent years, and captured the attention of both Buddhist teachers and psychoanalysts, is the fascinating relationship between these divergent traditions. Today, there are growing numbers of people looking for therapists who respect their need for meditation and spiritual support. So too, there are scores of long-term (even second generation) meditators who have come to realize that spiritual practice does not always eliminate the psychological problems they hoped it would. In this way, these two radically different approaches to wellness have begun to intersect with new levels of respect and curiosity.
As a caveat to this growing conversation, scholars of both traditions have been quick to point out that the differences between these two healing realms are extensive. Buddhism arose some 2,500 years ago in India. Its founder, Siddhartha Gautama, was a young man of great wealth who grew up in cloistered privilege. It was through his introduction, at the age of 29, to the suffering world of sickness, aging and death that he was inspired to explore how we might relate to our basic vulnerability and still remain happy. In his 84,000 ensuing teachings, he emphasized that despite the pain we would invariably endure, happiness was our most basic birthright.
Psychoanalysis, in contrast, first developed in Europe just over 100 years ago. Sigmund Freud, its founder and steadfast protector, lead a radically different life from the young Siddhartha. At an early age, Freud knew the pain of loneliness and struggle and went on to suffer the traumas of anti-semitism, two world wars and the loss of a child. It is not surprising that his approach to healing would posit a basic conflict inherent to the human condition. Freud believed that much like the warring world that raged around him, within our own psyches was another kind of battlefield of raging instincts that constantly seek expression. His was a more pessimistic view: that the best we can do is find ways to sublimate our sexual and aggressive urges and settle for "common unhappiness." Yet, he brought to light the impact of the unconscious, and the ways in which we can live with less suffering and more integrity if we accept the truth of what is in our unconscious.
The interest in how Buddha Shakyamuni's approach to wellness might converge with Freud's, began more than 60 years ago. In the 1950s, psychoanalysts including Karen Horney and Eric Fromm wrote about their growing interest in Zen Buddhism, and its more hopeful vision for how people might come to genuinely enjoy their lives, despite the pain of loss and the power of desire. In the intervening years, many more therapists and Buddhist teachers joined in this conversation, exploring the tools of each path, and seeking creative ways to bring them together.
Such theorists point out that each tradition has something unique to offer and limitations to overcome. Psychoanalysis has been extremely useful in helping people understand how their earliest experience of relationship influences their sense of self and their approach to interpersonal relationships. It has respected the importance of early childhood and the particular ways in which each individual will respond to his or her caretakers. The downside of this self-centric process, say its critics, is the solipsism that can result from too many years of parsing personal struggles.
Theorists interested in how Buddhism and psychotherapy might work together, have suggested that this very solipsism is powerfully challenged in Buddhist practice. Buddhism takes a more universal view of our human struggles, suggesting that all of us, regardless of our caretakers or personal traumas, can be helped by remembering that everything changes, including our most entrenched struggles and vexing relationships. It's simply the nature of reality. So too, we depend upon each other for everything -- our food, education, healthcare, companionship. According to Buddhist thought, none of us can get through this life, or achieve abiding happiness, alone. So it makes sense to treat each other with genuine care, knowing that we share the same wish to be happy and free from suffering.
Today, these two paradigms are mixing minds and ideas through an expanding population of Westerners who want to understand the influence of their own personal history, while not getting too caught up in it. In this way, Buddhism and psychoanalysis have begun to cultivate a true partnership that seems to be ushering in wellness on a new scale.