MY WORK ... MY PASSION

• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer

MSW - UNC Chapel Hill

BSW - UNC Greensboro


With immense love I wish Happy Birthday to my three grandchildren!

May 22: Brannock

May 30: Brinkley

June 12: Brogan

All three have birthdays in the same 22 days of the year ....what a busy time for the family!

"An Unending Love"

This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my precious daughter Jennifer, my grand daughters Brogan and Brinkley, and my grand son Brannock. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.




The Definition of Genius

"THRIVE"

https://youtu.be/Lr-RoQ24lLg

"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."


As we are in the winter of our lives, I dedicate this to Andrew, Dr. John J.C. Jr. and Gary W., MD, (who has gone on before us). My love and admiration is unfathomable for each of you..........and what you have brought into this world.....so profoundly to me.
The metaphors are rich and provocative; we're in them now. This world is indeed disappearing, and the richest eternal world awaits us!
The intensity, as was in each of the three of us, is in yellow!
In my heart forever.........

Slowly the truth is loading
I'm weighted down with love
Snow lying deep and even
Strung out and dreaming of
Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world

We're threading hope like fire

Down through the desperate blood
Down through the trailing wire
Into the leafless wood

Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This disappearing world


I'll be sticking right there with it
I'll be by y
our side
Sailing like a silver bullet
Hit 'em 'tween the eyes
Through the smoke and rising water
Cross the great divide
Baby till it all feels right

Night falling on the city
Sparkling red and gold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This
disappearing world
This disappearing world
This disappearing world


TECHNOLOGY..........

In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"

God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."

Wednesday, December 20, 2017

"Let's Pretend" - Michael Crawford

I don't think there is any Christmas carol I don't love.  But Michael recorded "Let's Pretend" for "Save the Children" in 1988 . Since then it has always been acclaimed for its poignancy and respect for children.

I followed his work for several years; his dedication to the children of this world is renowned. In my heart, the seeds were carefully planted. They have been there since. I listened to much of his music, and read of his dedication. This song presents the core of the profound caring of people who are vested in these children's futures.

I never hear this "proposal" for worldwide children without tears on my face. My belief system is indeed eclectic. I will share a conversation I had with a deep friend once, who had the same inclinations in treating children. We were "fantasizing" (or maybe not!) about what we would do once we were in the afterlife. We smiled because we both wanted something to do that we •loved• , since that would be such a long, long time! Of course we were wondrous about the notion of "eternity".

We shared our dwindling fascination with any"thing" in this life. Everything material could be pretty, but so temporary. We spoke of a retreat we had been to several years before, which meditated on the utter never-endingness of what would eventually come. We did a meditation on that state, and were overwhelmed. After, my friend shared his heart's desire of how he hoped he would spend his afterlife.


After that, I shared that I would love to be at some imagined gate where, once I went in, I could meet and comfort and cheer any of the children in heaven. That imagination went long with me through my practice. Often creeping into my vision, I would smile about the magnificence of that role. I was seeing so much suffering in kids, yet their resilience was more glorious than I could ever imagine. What eternity could possibly be more joyous? Children have an endless fount of love! With my daughter and her three children. I was always deeply moved. They didn't have to say a word ... their eyes, and giggling ... sometimes so ethereal, I was completely filled with wonder.


These days as media brings us so many stories of children ... well, that imaginary (or not!) dream I had had me wonder how amazing it would be to be with children for eternity. That carved itself deeply into my heart.


"And believe that it all will come true" (line of song)





"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...4 and a half decades!"

"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...4 and a half decades!"