“Evolution is speeding up, not time. Consciousness is evolving, becoming aware of itself as creation's mentor. Children are evolution's front edge. They push at boundaries... challenge the status quo...irritate convention. That is their job...to set free all that sullies the human heart and blinds the mind to the relationship between the Creator and the Created." ~ P.M.H. Atwater~
MY WORK ... MY PASSION
• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment • ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer
MSW - UNC Chapel Hill
BSW - UNC Greensboro
With immense love I wish Happy Birthday to my three grandchildren!
May 22: Brannock
May 30: Brinkley
June 12: Brogan
All three have birthdays in the same 22 days of the year ....what a busy time for the family!
"An Unending Love"
This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my precious daughter Jennifer, my grand daughters Brogan and Brinkley, and my grand son Brannock. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.
The Definition of Genius
"THRIVE"
"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
We're threading hope like fire
Down through the desperate blood
Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
I'll be by your side
Hit 'em 'tween the eyes
Through the smoke and rising water
Cross the great divide
Baby till it all feels right
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
"The degree of our enlightenment is the degree of passion that we will have for the whole world." ~The Greystone Mandala
"The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter." ~ Winston Churchill
Kant: "We are not rich by what we possess, but what we can do without."
"A child can teach an adult three things: to be happy for no reason, to always be busy with something, and to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires." ~ Paulo Coelho
“It is not the critic who counts,not the man who who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”Theodore Roosevelt
TECHNOLOGY..........
In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"
God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."
Monday, December 28, 2015
Donald Trump Leads an Insane White Cult — and Pat Buchanan Just Explained How It Works | Alternet
All is Lost | Film Reviews | Films | Spirituality
When I was 11, I went to my grandmother's funeral, the marker was discussed at some point. For some reason, I was intrigued by what one says on a marker, and wondered if they (the deceased) predetermined that. I vowed I would. Already my life had its share of chaos, but even then I considered myself in certain ways ... a sense of nonduality already prevailed, but certainly not in that word or theory. I recall then, and through the years, that the phrase, "I tried", certainly captured what I knew to be the deepest essence of me. Thus, this film ... add that to my age, life experiences, and my belief system ... had a deep impact. This film says it for many of us, I think......
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"An immersive drama about being resilient and facing the fear we all have of dying alone..."
CLICK HERE TO READ THIS REVIEW
Sunday, December 27, 2015
Psych Drug Shocker: Antidepressant Drugs Work No Better than Placebo; Big Pharma Hoax Finally Exposed - NaturalNews.com
Saturday, December 26, 2015
"The Beauty in Authenticity" by Anna Trishch
Through my entire life, I believe that I value authenticity most highly. My own interpretation of it is that it underscores integrity and love ... hence neither of those are possible without authenticity.........
By Anna Trishch
The Tipping Point Is Here --- and It's All About You!! by Zen Gardner
http://www.zengardner.com/the-tipping-point-is-here-and-its-all-about-you/by Zen Gardner"There’s no question about it. We’re there. And I’m not just talking about the globalist takeover bid they’re hastily and clumsily trying to execute.The awakening is erupting.Many feel lost and afraid right now all across the spectrum of humanity. This deliberate creation of chaos is designed to do just that. However, parallel and simultaneous to their psychotic designs is a massive arousal of the human spirit, spurred on by an arising of conscious awareness and a deep sense of growing personal realization and empowerment.Most may not recognize these rising seemingly confusing energetic changes as being the creative process at work, but it is. Awakening is first of all a destructive process, eliminating everything that is unreal and inhibitive of personal development and progress. These two dynamics work concurrently.When you stand back and observe with washened eyes you’ll see it, and it brings great peace in the midst of these stormy times.What Price Awakening?
Being awake comes with a price, and it may have been upped a bit or even a lot lately. You’re being worked on. Letting go and getting the most out of challenging circumstances and conditions is vital to growth. Don’t fight it, whatever you do.It’s very sad to see unawakened humanity being tossed to and fro without a clue as to what is really going on. But even that is an “engineered” shake up designed by Universe to help every one of us come to our senses and transcend this false reality. Millions are flocking to alternative news sources to try to make sense of what’s going on, and they’re stumbling on realities they never considered before.And that’s a wonderful thing. It will cause a lot of pain to make the realizations they’re being presented with but again, that’s alright. Truth comes with a cost – the end of the lies and illusions they had previously based their entire lives on. And it’s an ongoing process.Many will be forced to enter the “dark night of the soul” whether they want to or not. I can tell you from personal experience that it’s a hell of a lot easier and quicker if you elect to let yourself go through it, and in many ways the sooner you do, if you haven’t already, the better.What Do We Do?
So what should we do? If we know the truth, we’re responsible not only to share it passionately, but also to live it. This is where it gets even more uncomfortable, but it must be done. The hour is late and the times we are living in are dire. There’s no alternative any more.We have to rise to the occasion. It’s virtually us or them, life or death, truth or lies, freedom or slavery – for not just ourselves but our loved ones, progeny and the entire human race. That’s what makes this the opportunity of a lifetime, and our marvelous creative Universe is there to meet you if you dare walk the path.In fact, you’ll even meet your true self, what you’ve been looking and longing for your whole life!The Tipping Point
I posted two remarkable videos today, clear signals that the tide is not , turning, but the tide of humanity awakening is rising quickly. What we do from here is supremely important as we have a growing array of opportunities for active participation unfolding before us. And there will be more, but waiting to start somewhere is not an option.The time to activate is now. Let anything that hinders this fall away from your life, whatever the cost. The call for our inner warriors to rise could not be any clearer.You’ll see these manifestations of the tipping point we’ve reached everywhere if you look. People’s tones are changing, minds are tossed about but exploring new perspectives, truths are being outed like never before. It’s an amazing time. Don’t stare at the machinations of the powers that shouldn’t be, they’re designed to distract and disempower. This is crucial.And don’t think Gaia is going to take all this lying down either. We’re talking about a massive energetic change we have the privilege to be a part of. Remember, nature bats last.Fed Up? Good!
Many are getting fed up with false flags, mass shootings, war drums, complete media bullshit and the fear riddled bloviations of the psychopaths in the news. That’s actually good, and one of the main symptoms of what I’m addressing here. You’re fed up – you’ve had enough. So turn it off. Just get the essentials from the independent and alternative news to keep an eye on things then turn it off. Draw on empowering sources that feed your soul and inspire your heart and draw close to supportive loved ones.Take the exploration of self you’re no doubt being presented with and see where it takes you.That’s the primary battle at hand. We need to become who we truly are if we’re to finish this out the way we should, could, can and will. But don’t dwell on your own damn ass all day either. Activate and proliferate the truth and build community and bonds of love with those you’re being called to be with. We all need this support and strength, and environments where we can be our authentic selves and grow into the full stature of awakened, empowered souls.Enjoy the ride, but don’t buck at the pain and sacrifices when they present themselves. They’re small fry compared to the glorious new world being birthed in the hearts of our beloved mankind."
Thursday, December 24, 2015
The Power of Authenticity | Psychology Today
"Being authentic in relationships is easier said than done. It requires that we tend closely to our actual felt experience. Rather than defend and protect ourselves, it means finding the courage to allow ourselves to be vulnerable and then show that to a person we want to be close to....."CLICK HERE TO READ MORE
To Thine Own Self: The Psychology of Authenticity | Wray Herbert
"One of the core principles of Alcoholics Anonymous, the 12-step addiction-recovery program, is authenticity. At least two of the steps emphasize the importance of honest moral inventory, and the AA "chip" -- the medallion handed out to commemorate periods of continued sobriety -- reads, "To thine own self be true."
The people who created AA back in the 1930s were not scientists or philosophers...."To Thine Own Self: The Psychology of Authenticity | Wray Herbert
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
2 Essential Ingredients of Authenticity | World of Psychology
Thursday, December 17, 2015
If the Last Republican Debate Did Not Scare You, You are Unscarable/Joe Carl/ Daily Kos
Not a peep in the debate about that other terrorist attack on U.S. soil
Sunday, December 13, 2015
PROFOUND JOY!
Saturday, December 12, 2015
The Beauty in Authenticity | by Anna Trishch
Memories of Heaven by Dr. Wayne Dyer |
"I have enjoyed a lifetime love affair with children, particularly newborns, infants, and toddlers. If a baby is in the room, it’s almost as if there is a magnetic connection that draws my attention and I must make contact. Being the father of eight children, I have spent countless hours simply gazing into the eyes of a brand-new arrival into our family. In these private moments, I often send silent inquisitive messages asking them to tell me about God and what the formless spiritual world is like."
CLICK HERE TO READ: Memories of Heaven by Dr. Wayne Dyer |
Wanting vs Having, Disabling Hypnotic Language, Working with Subconscious Mind | Jack Elias
How to Get What We Want
Wanting vs. Having -- I hear it from almost every client, but hearing it from all these people at once somehow made it a fresh new phenomenon. This is one way I like to look at the problem:ROBERT REDFORD'S MOVIE: STAND WITH HIM AND DEMAND CLIMATE ACTION!!!
Friday, December 11, 2015
Bernie Sanders Will Become President, Despite Rigged Debate Schedules, Skewed Polls, and Clinton's 'Inevitability' | H. A. Goodman
CLICK HERE TO READ RATIONALE
Sunday, December 6, 2015
Native Hawaiian Spirituality. Researching When the Words Aren't There | Sarah Beck
There are downsides to being a graduate student. Debt, for starters. Sanskrit translations take a close second. And of course endless reading that has caused me to despise all forms of outside "pleasure" reading. (As if in my spare time - which isn't as plentiful as my working friends would like to imagine - I want to sit down and read a magazine or book. For fun. Ha!)
Sunday, November 29, 2015
Let's Pretend- Michael Crawford - YouTube
I was at a Thankgsgiving F-E-A-S-T this past week. It was not only a feast of food, although it surely was that. From any aspect, it was very clear about the abundant outcomes that happen when we humans join forces.... for anything.
I experienced a group of people, thankfully all very human.....but it was the tapestry of their individual divinities that showered over all of me. As I slept that evening, it was like "visions of sugar plums dancing in my head", as I would remember one moment after another.
The man who asked the blessing gave his own special brand of depth and insight to the day: a total gift. Until then, I had always seen his ready wit, sense of "I'm in" fun, and athletic, buffed appearance. I am not really sure what I expected from his blessing over family and food, but profound is what I got! He later teased that he had shortened it somewhat, because he usually got the collective "throat clearing" of the family members eager to "dig in". I have to say, I was wishing he had gone longer.
What amazed me throughout the day, and which was very different than my own very extended family, was the mature, and even sacred, way they had of putting aside the everyday silliness of the "stuff" we humans manage to inflict on one another. Oh, sure, there were teeny, almost imperceptible, ripples ... but those were so fleeting and brief. Why? The underpinning of caring, respect, and love trumped that. We even got into some family pictures towards the end of the evening .... the biggest gift here? It was what the family members pointed out was really important over the years. Therein was the sacredness...and the Divine at work.
This family redefined my concept of family, love, and strength. I still feel a high measure of enjoyment from that extended family who know what the priorities in this life are. They knew the vississitudes, the bumps in the road ... all of that. That, for me is what defines heroines and heros: those people who literally smirk at what life sometimes throws our way ... that which could buckle the best of us. In the most blessed character, these people showed me how they stand indomitably and indestructibly .. and try to keep character and compassion as their staunch and main theme.
They know who they are, this family of five adult children, all raised by their single mom. This family tries very hard to make the lyrics of this song come alive. Simply compelling!
And so, this family made "let's pretend"...very REAL!
CLICK HERE TO LISTEN, AND READ FURTHER
Saturday, November 28, 2015
Giving Thanks for a Nation of Migrants, Refugees, and Immigrants | The Nation
"The Pilgrims were, of course, migrants seeking refuge from intolerance and threats, hardship and violence. It is the recollection of their experience that underpins the deeply rooted American values not just of welcoming the stranger but of respecting religious diversity...."
CLICK HERE TO READ MORE...Is Narcissism Genetic? - The Narcissistic Life
Is Narcissism Genetic? - The Narcissistic Life
Wednesday, November 25, 2015
"6 Types of Emotional Abuse" / found on afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com
6 Types of Emotional Abuse by Narcissistic Parents
- constant criticism
- name-calling
- telling child he/she is ugly
- yelling or swearing at the child
- frequent belittling and use of labels such as “stupid” or “idiot”
- constant demeaning jokes
- verbal humiliation
- constant teasing about child’s body type and/or weight
- expressing regret the child wasn’t born the opposite sex
- refusing hugs and loving gestures
- physical abandonment
- excluding child from family activities
- treating an adolescent like he is a child
- expelling the child from the family
- not allowing a child to make his own reasonable choices
- no response to infant’s spontaneous social behaviors
- failure to pay attention to significant events in child’s life
- lack of attention to schooling, peers, etc.
- refusing to discuss your child’s activities and interests
- planning activities/vacations without including your child
- not accepting the child as an offspring
- denying required health care
- denying required dental care
- failure to engage child in day to day activities
- failure to protect child
- excessive teasing
- yelling, cursing and scaring
- unpredictable and extreme responses to a child’s behavior
- extreme verbal threats
- raging, alternating with periods of warmth
- threatening abandonment
- berating family members in front of or in ear range of a child
- threatening to destroy a favorite object
- threatening to harm a beloved pet
- forcing child to watch inhumane acts
- inconsistent demands on the child
- displaying inconsistent emotions
- changing the “rules of the game”
- threatening that the child is adopted or doesn’t belong
- ridiculing a child in public
- threatening to reveal intensely embarrassing traits to peers
- threatening to kick an adolescent out of the house
- leaving a child unattended for long periods
- keeping a child away from family
- not allowing a child to have friends
- not permitting a child to interact with other children
- rewarding a child for withdrawing from social contact
- ensuring that a child looks and acts differently than peers
- isolating a child from peers or social groups
- insisting on excessive studying and/or chores
- preventing a child from participating in activities outside the home
- punishing a child for engaging in normal social experiences
Encouraging an underage child to do things that are illegal or harmful is abusive and should be reported.
- rewarding child for bullying and/or harassing behavior
- teaching racism and ethnic biases or bigotry
- encouraging violence in sporting activities
- inappropriate reinforcement of sexual activity
- rewarding a child for lying and stealing
- rewarding a child for substance abuse or sexual activity
- supplying child with drugs, alcohol and other illegal substances
- promoting illegal activities such as selling drugs
- infants and young children expected not to cry
- anger when infant fails to meet a developmental stage
- a child expected to be ‘caregiver’ to the parent
- a child expected to take care of younger siblings
- blaming a child for misbehavior of siblings
- unreasonable responsibilities around the house
- expecting a child to support family financially
- encouraging participation in pornography
- sexually abusing child or youth
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