MY WORK ... MY PASSION

• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer

MSW - UNC Chapel Hill

BSW - UNC Greensboro


With immense love I wish Happy Birthday to my three grandchildren!

May 22: Brannock

May 30: Brinkley

June 12: Brogan

All three have birthdays in the same 22 days of the year ....what a busy time for the family!

"An Unending Love"

This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my precious daughter Jennifer, my grand daughters Brogan and Brinkley, and my grand son Brannock. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.




The Definition of Genius

"THRIVE"

https://youtu.be/Lr-RoQ24lLg

"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."


As we are in the winter of our lives, I dedicate this to Andrew, Dr. John J.C. Jr. and Gary W., MD, (who has gone on before us). My love and admiration is unfathomable for each of you..........and what you have brought into this world.....so profoundly to me.
The metaphors are rich and provocative; we're in them now. This world is indeed disappearing, and the richest eternal world awaits us!
The intensity, as was in each of the three of us, is in yellow!
In my heart forever.........

Slowly the truth is loading
I'm weighted down with love
Snow lying deep and even
Strung out and dreaming of
Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world

We're threading hope like fire

Down through the desperate blood
Down through the trailing wire
Into the leafless wood

Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This disappearing world


I'll be sticking right there with it
I'll be by y
our side
Sailing like a silver bullet
Hit 'em 'tween the eyes
Through the smoke and rising water
Cross the great divide
Baby till it all feels right

Night falling on the city
Sparkling red and gold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This
disappearing world
This disappearing world
This disappearing world


TECHNOLOGY..........

In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"

God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."

Monday, March 28, 2011

"So...What Is This Thing Called Ascension?"

Re-posted from  BRIGHTHILL and the Hawkesworths


Quite simply, Ascension is remembering who you are.
We are all spiritual beings, a part of God, but we have forgotten this connection while we experienced this third-dimensional world. Ascension means returning to a higher dimension (or vibration) that you never left—remembering where you have always been.
Initially, Ascension on this plane means moving from 3-D to 4-D. After some time, we will then move to 5-D, but it never really ends, because we are infinite, and we never stop growing and evolving.


4-D
4-D has similarities to 3-D. We will still have bodies, except that our bodies can be completely healed and can be however we wish them to be. They are just vehicles, in any dimension. The veil will be gone, and we will see spirits and entities, our teachers, easily again. Animals that have been extinct will return, including the so-called mythological animals, such as griffins and unicorns. In reality, they never left, but we will see them again.


Color will be a whole new experience in 4-D. You may be experiencing 4-D colors now. They go beyond what we call the "visible spectrum" in 3-D. They are incredibly deep and vibrant.


The shift into 4-D is a tonal shift, and everyone who heals will have 12 chakras, not 7. (The more a being ascends, the more chakras they have. This is why some of the teacher entities in ancient Egypt were 30 feet or more tall. The depictions of scale in ancient Egypt is not fantasy; it was a picture of reality.)


Manifestation will occur very quickly—what we think, we create. This cycle occurs in 3-D, but the amount of time it takes to create in this way is speeding up. If you think about it, you can see this in your life. Good or bad, whatever you focus on is what comes to you. And, with the end of karma, attempts to harm simply rebound onto ourselves with lightning speed. But we will quickly learn that we don't want to do that, as we release our egos...


5-D and beyond
When we ascend to 5-D, we will realize we don't need our bodies, and we will have the ability to return to Light whenever we want to. Is it hard to imagine yourself without a body? To imagine yourself as a spark of God's Divine Love? This is who you really are. The ego wraps itself in the body, but this is not truth. This is not you.
All of the great masters "live" here, and beyond: Christ, Quan Yin, Buddha, Ganesh, St. Francis, the list goes on and on.


Ascension and healing
I am often asked what we need to do to prepare for ascension, and there is only one answer:  work on your own healing. We will all ascend, one way or the other. We may live through the ascension here on Earth. Some of us have chosen to do this. Some have not. Those who have not will still ascend, but they will do so by the death of their physical body. This is their choice. Everyone has free will.
If you are reading this, chances are you want to stay, and you are being called to healing.


Healing is critical. The energies that are coming in now are very high frequency, and our bodies are working to integrate them. This affects everyone, even healers. As a result, our bodies are having strange healing responses:  sudden illnesses, hospitalizations, you name it. I have had a pretty major healing response myself, which landed me in the hospital for awhile. Energetically, it was all good, but it was a scary experience.


Of course, as I've written elsewhere, the physical manifestation of illness comes from problems in the spiritual, mental, and emotional bodies. In order to heal, we must reconnect our emotions, and we must reconnect with Spirit. There are no shortcuts.


Earth changes
The Earth Changes are an important part of the Ascension. Gaia has much to heal, much she has suffered at our hands. She is doing so. Gaia's healing may leave some areas in the "emergency room" for awhile as she heals, but we can help her with this and make the transition as smooth as possible. The global warming that is occuring is due in large part to the amount of energy she is exerting in making these changes. She is generating a lot of heat...


Which isn't to say we shouldn't be green. Oil has got to go. Free energy IS available, and it has been suppressed by the people who control the world's economy today. They are losing their grip, however, and it is changing... hang on for the ride, some systems must fall before we can build anew.


When will the Ascension happen?
It is happening now. Look around you. Healing is like making chicken soup. First, all the scum rises to the surface. The chaos and violence in the world are a sign that healing is occurring. People are actually getting sick of it. We will find the way of peace because we have no other choice.


2012 is certainly a factor. There will probably be an Ascension event at that time, and no one can say what that will look like with certainty. I believe it will be an energetic pulse that will trigger masses of people to wake up. The veil may drop at this time. However, it will not be the ONLY Ascension event. Ascension is a process. If it weren't, probably none of us could survive it. There will be other events following 2012, and this will continue for decades.


Past Ascension events and grid shifts
At least one Ascension event has occurred in the past. Notably, one occurred with the birth of the man known as Jesus Christ. In a very obscure Gnostic text regarding his birth (in a cave, not a stable in Bethlehem), the Sun stopped in the sky for 24 hours—the Earth stopped rotating on its axis. This wasn't because he was the sole Son of God (everyone is the Son/Daughter of God), but rather because of the energy he brought to the planet. Full Ascension could have occurred in his lifetime, but the world was not ready.


Grid shifts occur continuously. 9/11 heralded a huge grid shift, for example. The Harmonic Convergence brought about a grid shift. Sometimes a natural disaster, like the Indonesian tsunami, is the result of a grid shift. Certainly, the geological records of the Earth suddenly flipping magnetic poles (from north to south, or vice versa) probably indicate similar events in our past.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Bringing up the rear

This is quite out of the realm of my usual post, yet important information. Some years ago this tendency was well confirmed as I surveyed hundreds of men regarding the male gender. It was interesting that they would, after an opening (no pun intended), talk about this subject openly with me, a female. Yet, as actually happened, take all these men into a group, and it was an issue which never came up (again, no pun intended).
My purpose for posting this is simply because we are working through our biases, little by little, and one by one. This validates that assumption.
Here's another one for you......note the concomitance between this notion, and the flexing of hard-assed (Nope no pun!!) ideas and judgments about gays?
This appeared in Salon, whose editorial research I respect...so now was the time. Enjoy!!!


http://www.salon.com/life/sex/index.html?story=/mwt/feature/2011/03/26/pegging

Saturday, March 26, 2011

"A Simple Way to Understand Ho'oponopono"


From "In the Desert Children's Project"


A Simple Way to Understand Ho'oponopono



Question:What is Ho'oponopono?  
Answer:  It is a way to cause LOVE, Peace and Harmony for all.

Question:

Why do I need Ho'oponopono? 
Answer: To resolve all problems in your life.

Question:

How do I resolve my problem?   
Answer:All problems can be resolved when we turn to LOVE, the Life Source,  for the answer.

Question: 

Why do I need to turn to LOVE to resolve my problem?
Answer: Only LOVE truly knows you and has the power to resolve all problems in your life.

   
 How does Ho'oponopono work? 
    1.   First know the functions of each during the cleaning:
                   Do you know what 
your job is?
                   Do you know what 
LOVE's job is?
     2.   Here's what 
your job looks like:


Simply ask for forgiveness, moment to moment, for whatever problems may be happening in your life by saying:

                                  "I'm sorry"                            "Please forgive me"
     3. Here's what LOVE's job looks like:

Only LOVE can erase or transmute unwanted energies or  thoughts:                         
And replace it with 
New Divine Thought which brings you back into Balance to experiencePeaceHarmony and Love.
     


                         
    4.  This process is called the 'cleaning'.

Question:How do I get to the cleaning?
Answer:Use one of theHo'oponopono tools which is the same as saying
 
"I'm Sorry.  Please Forgive me"
     5.  Everything is left totally up to LOVE to design the outcome.
          All we need to do is accept so we can receive what is right
          and perfect for each of us.


                                                    





Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Undoubtedly!!....A Wayseer: "The Rescue of A Baby Hummingbird"

If it were only possible to clone this young male...one can only imagine the tenderness he will have for his own child in the future, should that be the path he decides.


But, in the here and now,...he is a stunning example of "love".


(And what could be better than the music by Jack Johnson...a real advocate of nature and responsibility to our earth.)

"On Empathy" by Marlene Swetlishoff

In this discourse, we wish to explore the quality of Love called empathy. Empathy is a feeling that automatically comes into play in those who are centered within their heart rather than through the intellect and is a ‘soft’ but decisive knowing that the situation that another person is experiencing is very challenging and requires the enduring of conditions that no one would willingly and consciously choose to go through but nevertheless have found themselves in the midst of.

When the quality of empathy is engaged, the one who is going through challenging experiences feels the quality of understanding from the other person and the first person is empowered and uplifted by the intuitive level of comprehension in regards to what the first one is feeling and experiencing and who can easily relate to the commonality of that experience by the simple act of being able to put oneself in the other’s shoes. It requires a highly developed emotional intelligence to realize that what pains one person pains all others also.

In order to help alleviate the associated pain being experienced by one person, the simple act of being willing to explore the inner feelings by the first person will help to empower them to ‘keep on keeping on’. Many times, a kind word or gesture at the right time has uplifted the hearts of many people and has enabled them to go on and keep taking the steps in their individual lives that might not have happened otherwise.

Employing humor in the midst of challenging situations is another form of deep empathy, for there is an inherent knowing that things will always turn out for the best if one just keeps at it in perseverance. This humor on the part of the one who is empathic helps to alleviate the stress and anxiety that usually underlies the internal referencing of the person being challenged as they try to cope and come to terms with, their most trying of situations.

Those who take charge and volunteer themselves to be of physical service in whatever way that is most practically helpful to the ones in distress is another level of empathy in action and can quickly uplift the hearts of those who were feeling depressed, anxious or troubled, for knowing that someone else can relate to and understand their inner emotions and concerns about their situation by being willing to ‘walk their talk’ and then take the physical steps necessary to bring order into the life of the person being challenged.

Sometimes, all that is needed is the human touch, a hug, a gentle pat on the shoulders, a touch of the hands, is all that is needed to ease the pain and confusion of the one who is in a challenging situation. By doing this, the one who feels empathy is expressing Love and respect to the other and lets them know that they are not alone in their present experience. The inner self becomes empowered and uplifted by these outer demonstrations of inner understanding and they thereby regain their emotional balance and equilibrium to keep on putting one foot in front of the other in perseverance.

The quality of empathy is developed in one who has themselves been through similar challenges in their lives and who can remember and relate to the situations and the feelings of depression, hopelessness and worry being experienced by the one in this moment because they also went through these feelings in a critical time in their life. You all have lived in a World where experiencing the duality of opposites of expression has played a major part in your learning and integrating processes and you have all gained a high degree of empathy for those around you. Now is the time to bring this quality out into the open to uplift and empower the people around the World and in your own neighborhoods who are most definitely in need of it. Be the Beacons of Light, Love and empathy and express the radiance of your Divinity at all times.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Upscale Abuse: "Are You Brave Enough to Leave An Abusive Marriage?"

Sharon Zarozny

Posted: March 19, 2011 04:33 AM



Are You Brave Enough to Leave an Abusive Marriage?


     It's hard to admit, and take action, when abuse happens in your marriage. My therapist was a saint, patiently listening to my story session after session, until finally one day she looked me straight in the eye and asked, "What's it going to take? Is he going to have to kill you?" That was my "aha" moment.

Problem was, I had a hard time seeing myself as a "victim." That was something that happened to others, not me. I'd landed in therapy because I was shell-shocked to learn my then husband had a mistress and "love" child. I was struggling with the "should I leave or should I stay" question while desperately trying to do all I could to save my marriage. Being raised Catholic, divorce was not in my plan. And, I was not ready to admit I'd chosen a man who abused me.
To put the shame of being a victim of domestic violence in perspective, the truth is I could tell people my ex-to-be had fathered a child with his mistress years before I could admit to physical abuse. In my mind, the child was his fault and the abuse was mine. To this day, I kind of mumble the words "abusive marriage." Sad thing is, I am not alone.
I've worked with many clients who are struggling with upscale abuse. Smart, educated, beautiful, gifted women who are shocked to piece together the fact they are in an abusive marriage. Most don't have the "victim" mentality and are mortified to find that yes, they are victims of domestic violence. These women succeed at most things, so it's excruciatingly painful that they can't make their marriage work.
Often they are married to powerful, high earning men. Many have given up promising careers at their spouse's unrelenting pressure. Compassionate moms, they do all they can to protect their children from the dad's emotional and/or physical abuse. They create beautiful homes, become a super volunteer, and do whatever they can to "make their husband look good." They are so busy they don't see how their spouse is slowly, but surely, chipping away at their soul.
Then one day they wake up and realize they can no longer perpetuate the "happily-ever-after" myth. Perhaps their spouse has had an affair, cut them off financially, grabbed them by the throat, or their survival instincts tell them they better make a plan to get out before it's too late.
When kids are involved, a new wrinkle is added. Many women (or men) stay to protect their children from time alone with an abusive parent. Others have extreme guilt at breaking up their family. What they don't realize is that it is exposure to conflict, and witnessing abuse, that harms children not divorce or losing a privileged lifestyle. When a child sees a parent get hit, yelled at or criticized the child unknowingly experiences it as something happening to him/her. So if you are staying for the children, studies show you are doing them more harm than good.
If you can identify, get a copy of Susan Weitzman's book Not To People Like Us: Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages or check outnottopeoplelikeus.com. Knowing you are not alone is so crucial to getting out. In your world that swirls with "unreals"  and craziness, you'll find this book/site a gift of validation. You'll know you are not crazy.
Also visit The Weitzman Center and download the free Care Kit provided. It too will help you understand and safely plan for when you are ready to get out. And plan you must. When you leave a high earning, narcissistic professional you can be in for quite a rough ride through the legal system. Often the upscale abuser has the means, power and leverage to hire a legal dream team and use the courts to further the abuse.
I know. My ex was a surgeon and Ivy League grad. He used our money to hire a bully of an attorney and his credentials gave him status in the Courts. That's a story for another day. In the meantime, visit these sites. If you can identify contact me (info@brilliantexits.com). We need to talk. You are not alone.
FYI: Not sure if you meet the criteria? Then take this test and call me in the morning: Upscale Abuse Test

Japan's Nuclear Disaster: Part of the Sad History of Humans Used

http://www.wanttoknow.info/humanguineapigs

Friday, March 18, 2011

Sacred Sexuality

Sacred Sexuality

Sacred Connections
Image by Carol Schoenleber

Sexuality can be a vehicle into spirituality
rather than an obstacle to it.
  ~  Peter Rengel

Though it is one of the most vital aspects of life, we are given very little healthy information about how to deal with sexuality in a sexually obsessed culture. For many people, sex is even more seductive than money. Our media, advertising, and entertainment industries are filled with subtle and not-so-subtle messages about sex. The underlying thrust is all about beauty, desire, and buying the products or operations which will make us popular, more attractive, and better lovers.
And even though advertising and entertainment are filled with sexual innuendo, it is rare that you will find anything other than tabloids and women's magazines talking openly about both the joys and challenges of sex. In many communities, homes, and workplaces, serious discussion of sexuality continues to be a taboo subject.
It is also extremely rare that any of society's many sexual messages even hints at the spiritual dimensions of sex. To those who have succumbed to all of these subliminal and overt messages, sacred sexuality might even seem like a contradiction in terms. Considering all of this, how can we transform sexual energy in our lives and in our world to better support the good of all of us?
Almost the opposite of societal conditioning, many of the world's religions imprint negative beliefs of sexuality in their followers. For thousands of years, these religions have considered sex to be a base and vulgar act.
Sexuality gets little mention in the sacred texts of Judaism, Islam, and Christianity. When it is mentioned, the suggestion is often to avoid it if possible in order to reach greater spiritual heights. Many monks and gurus also teach that we must refrain from sex in order to reach enlightenment. Yet none of us would be here without sex. There is virtually no spiritual instruction in how to deal with sexual urges other than to abstain. As a result, many people experience a split between sexuality and spirituality in their lives.
For a powerful, yet deeply personal exploration of the sexual-spiritual split by a wonderful workshop facilitator who was willing to explore his own wounds with workshop participants, please read the engaging six-page story below.
The exciting news is that, as shown in the above essay, old paradigm beliefs and attitudes around sexuality are clearly changing. Homosexuality, bisexuality, and other sexual persuasions are gradually gaining more acceptance and support, even in the media. Yet common misperceptions around all forms of sexuality continue to exist in many people and places, and very few have even considered the possibility that sexuality can be used to enhance spiritual growth.
While fully honoring and supporting those who choose to abstain from sex for spiritual reasons, for those who choose to include sexuality in their spiritual path, it is important to be open and real in discussing this powerful force and how it can be used to change our lives and world. The term sacred sexuality is now being heard with increasing frequency in certain circles. Please read the below eye-opening article showing how old attitudes are gradually changing.
Sacred sexuality is often associated with tantra – a spiritual practice in which sexuality is used to achieve higher spiritual states. Though tantric sexuality was developed in India thousands of years ago, it is recently becoming popular in certain pioneering groups in this modern age. The below article, while acknowledging those who choose a spiritual path of celibacy, describes some of the inspiring aspects of tantra or the art of spiritual lovemaking.
And for a couple short, inspiring essays on fostering spiritual intimacy in relationships, follow these links:
Remember that in matters of sacred sexuality, the energy or essence of the people involved is more important than the physical bodies they inhabit. The seven-minute video below beautifully demonstrates this:

  Sacred Cows


Sacred Cows © Spyder Webb of sacredcowsonline.com

In mushrooms and ciliated protozoans there are many tens of different genders. Some slime molds have 13 fusion sexes. 
  ~  Christine Fielder and Chris King in Sexual Paradox

Taking Responsibility for Our Lives

Taking Responsibility for Our Lives
Soaring

It's not what happens to you that matters, it's what you do with it. 
W. Mitchell, Inspirational Speaker

Welcome to lesson two of the Inspiration Course. In order to open to more love and deeper connections with ourselves and those around us, taking responsibility for our lives is an essential quality. As a first step to exploring this key topic, the below two-page article discusses the roles of victim and creator, and how when the going gets tough, we have choice as to which role we play.
Next, W Mitchell is a man who speaks from rich experience. The below inspiring, 15-minute video reminds us that it's not what happens to us that matters, but rather what we do about it. In spite of tremendous adversity in his life, W Mitchell chooses again and again not to be a victim, but rather to be a powerful creative force in life, and an inspiration to all who know him.
It's not what happens to you that matters, it's what you do with it! After watching this inspiring video clip, think of all the ways you may have blamed yourself or others for shortcomings in yourself or your life.
Does it really serve you to blame anyone or anything? What if we choose to accept our circumstances, to accept our lives, and to accept our world just as they are? Aren't we then freer to move powerfully forward and transform into a more effective, inspiring presence for ourselves and for those around us?
For a thought-provoking three-page essay by a renowned relationship counselor giving more valuable ideas on this potent topic, please see the link below.
So would you rather be right or be happy? The two short, inspiring stories of father and son healing below beautifully demonstrate how one person alone letting go of the need to be right and then taking personal responsibility can dramatically change a significant relationship for the better.

  Sacred Cows


Sacred Cows © Spyder Webb of sacredcowsonline.com

Healing and mastery come as we embrace all that is exactly as it is, while taking complete responsibility for our relationship with it.   ~  Dane Colby

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Raymon Grace...more wisdom from him!

April 3: 9:00 am EST; April 10 at 10:00 am EST
Ramon Grace Radio 2011Raymon Grace, a native of the mountains of Virginia, has spent the past 35 years empowering folks to gain more control of their lives. His work reaches people on wide social and economic levels. With a unique and down-to-earth manner, he teaches in a style that characterizes his life. He is known as a dowser, consultant, author and Mountain Man. His work and teaching have been used to reduce violence in schools, eliminate abuse of women and children as well as physical and mental benefits for individuals. He has worked with law enforcement officers in both U.S. and Canada to successfully reduce violent crime. Join him May 13-15 in Virginia Beach for a Dowsing Training Intensive: Attuning to the Source. Learn more at RaymonGrace.com

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Shock Doctrine, U.S.A.

The story of the privatization-obsessed Coalition Provisional Authority [created by Bush in Iraq in 2003] was the centerpiece of Naomi Klein’s best-selling book “The Shock Doctrine,” which argued that it was part of a broader pattern. From Chile in the 1970s onward, she suggested, right-wing ideologues have exploited crises to push through an agenda that has nothing to do with resolving those crises, and everything to do with imposing their vision of a harsher, more unequal, less democratic society. Which brings us to Wisconsin 2011, where the shock doctrine is on full display. In recent weeks, Madison has been the scene of large demonstrations against the governor’s budget bill, which would deny collective-bargaining rights to public-sector workers. Gov. Scott Walker claims that he needs to pass his bill to deal with the state’s fiscal problems. But his attack on unions has nothing to do with the budgetWhat’s happening in Wisconsin is, instead, a power grab — an attempt to exploit the fiscal crisis to destroy the last major counterweight to the political power of corporations and the wealthy. And the power grab goes beyond union-busting. The bill in question is 144 pages long, and there are some extraordinary things hidden deep inside. For example, the bill includes language that would allow officials appointed by the governor to make sweeping cuts in health coverage for low-income families without having to go through the normal legislative process. The state of Wisconsin owns a number of plants supplying heating, cooling, and electricity to state-run facilities. The language in the budget bill would ... let the governor privatize any or all of these facilities. Not only that, he could sell them, without taking bids, to anyone he chooses. And note that any such sale would, by definition, be “considered to be in the public interest.”

Note: For an abundance of major media articles revealing rampant government corruption, click here.

"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...4 and a half decades!"

"there were no words, but images flooded every cell in her being ...4 and a half decades!"