“Evolution is speeding up, not time. Consciousness is evolving, becoming aware of itself as creation's mentor. Children are evolution's front edge. They push at boundaries... challenge the status quo...irritate convention. That is their job...to set free all that sullies the human heart and blinds the mind to the relationship between the Creator and the Created." ~ P.M.H. Atwater~
MY WORK ... MY PASSION
• Certified Transpersonal Hypnotherapist ; Past experiences: Dream Analysis /10 Years Experience •Psychotherapist / Use of Gestalt, Jungian, Zen, Reality and Energy Therapies /10 Years Experience •EMDR • Men and Their Journey: the neuroscience of the male brain, and the implications in sexuality, education and relationship • Women: Their Transformation and Empowerment • ATOD (Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs) / 21 years experience •Ordained Interfaith Minister & Official Celebrant • Social Justice Advocate • Child and Human Rights Advocate • Spiritual Guide and Intuitive • Certified Reiki Practitioner • Mediation / Conflict Resolution • “Intentional Love” Parenting Strategy Groups • Parenting Workshops • Coaching for parents of Indigo, Crystal, and Rainbow Children • International Training: Israel & England • Critical Incident Stress Debriefing • Post-911 and Post-Katrina volunteer
MSW - UNC Chapel Hill
BSW - UNC Greensboro
With immense love I wish Happy Birthday to my three grandchildren!
May 22: Brannock
May 30: Brinkley
June 12: Brogan
All three have birthdays in the same 22 days of the year ....what a busy time for the family!
"An Unending Love"
This blog and video is devoted and dedicated to my precious daughter Jennifer, my grand daughters Brogan and Brinkley, and my grand son Brannock. They are hearts of my heart. Our connection through many lives..... is utterly infinite.
The Definition of Genius
"THRIVE"
"ONLY LOVE PREVAILS" ...."I've loved you for a thousand years; I'll love you for a thousand more....."
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
We're threading hope like fire
Down through the desperate blood
Night falling on the city
Quite something to behold
Don't it just look so pretty
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
I'll be by your side
Hit 'em 'tween the eyes
Through the smoke and rising water
Cross the great divide
Baby till it all feels right
This disappearing world
This disappearing world
"The degree of our enlightenment is the degree of passion that we will have for the whole world." ~The Greystone Mandala
"The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter." ~ Winston Churchill
Kant: "We are not rich by what we possess, but what we can do without."
"A child can teach an adult three things: to be happy for no reason, to always be busy with something, and to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires." ~ Paulo Coelho
“It is not the critic who counts,not the man who who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”Theodore Roosevelt
TECHNOLOGY..........
In “Conversations with God”, by Neale Donald Walsch, there is a warning I think of. I refer to it as the Atlantis passage, and I've quoted it a few times before." As I have said, this isn't the first time your civilization has been at this brink,"
God tells Walsch. "I want to repeat this, because it is vital that you hear this. Once before on your planet, the technology you developed was far greater than your ability to use it responsibly. You are approaching the same point in human history again. It is vitally important that you understand this. Your present technology is threatening to outstrip your ability to use it wisely. Your society is on the verge of becoming a product of your technology rather than your technology being a product of your society. When a society becomes a product of its own technology, it destroys itself."
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
10 Surprising Things That Benefit Our Brains That You Can Do Every Day ~ Belle Beth Cooper/Huffpost Science
Monday, November 25, 2013
Is there an afterlife? The science of biocentrism can prove there is, claims Professor Robert Lanza
Sympathy for the Stay-At-Home Mom ~ New Republic / Judith Shulevitz
The Best-Kept Secret To Highly Successful Couples ~ Huffington Post / Adam Grant
Sunday, November 24, 2013
"Legalize Marijuana"! | The Nation
"How Teaching Kids Gratitude in School Makes Kids Happier" ~ Huffington Post / Emily Campbell
This article originally appeared on Greater Good, published by the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley. For more, please visitgreatergood.berkeley.edu.
Jeffrey Froh is a pioneering researcher of gratitude in youth. He and colleagues tested a new kind of gratitude curriculum for elementary school children (ages 8 to 11), the youngest studied thus far. First, children learned about the three types of appraisals that make us feel grateful:
- That someone has intentionally done something to benefit us
- That providing this benefit was costly to them
- That the benefit is valuable to us
In another recent study, Mindy Ma and colleagues looked at gratitude in a very different kind of population than those used in previous youth gratitude studies: African-American adolescents (ages 12 -14) in low-income, low-performing urban schools.
7 (Realistic) Ways to Reduce Stress ~ Huffington Post / John Tsilimparis
7 (Realistic) Ways To Minimize Stress
Breathing deeply can help to reduce your stress and provide oxygen to your brain to help you focus. Most people do not know how to "deep breath" and so they end up breathing shallow breaths which can cause hyperventilation.
The process of slowly tensing and then relaxing muscle groups of your choosing is very important also. It accomplishes two goals, it naturally relaxes your muscles since you are probably very tense from stress and it distracts the "racing mind" by helping it focus on something different.
Sitting and "white-knuckling" through your stress hoping it will go away will only make it worse. The trick is to "ground" yourself in a tangible activity that will bring you back to reality. It will remind you that you are okay! Distract your mind by doing a concrete task around the house like cleaning, washing, organizing a closet, etc. You may read, or do a crossword puzzle or call a friend. Or, try running your fingers along the teeth of your keys, squeezing a stress ball, or holding any object in your hand that you can focus on, etc. Do not sit home alone and do not watch TV.
Thought replacement techniques have been around for years and they actually work if you know how to use them. When you experience a negative thought that is causing you stress, say "stop" to yourself. Write it down and then cultivate an alternative thought. Write the alternative thought down even if you don't believe it will help. Alternative thoughts are simple, more rational thoughts that give you peace. They help you see the larger picture.
Guided Imagery
Close your eyes and try to think of a safe place that represents peace and calm. It could be your home, a beach, a forest, or being in the presence of a loved one or your favorite pet. Then imagine going there and embracing the experience with open arms. What are the sounds, smells and the particular sights you see? Get specific and keep deepening the details of the imagery until you feel your stress level come down. Try this two times per day.
Cultivating radical acceptance of your symptoms of stress is the first step towards reducing its power over you. Accept that that you are scared, and scrutinize the negative thoughts you are having. Is it danger or discomfort? Most of the time, our stress is the "anticipatory" kind which is when we panic about things in the future that have not happened yet or about things that will never happen.
We all know that exercise releases endorphins which are responsible for increasing your minds ability to elevate mood and feel good. Exercise does not only mean heavy cardio activities or going to the gym for three hours every day. It simply means being as active as possible like taking a 15- to 30-minute walk once or twice a day. It can also mean "light" cardio like bike riding, a short hike, playing tennis or golf. It also means taking a yoga or Pilates class. The more you are active the better you will feel. If you are a couch potato, your chances of elevating your mood and reducing stress are slim to none.
Right-wing “family expert”: "Treating husbands and wives as equals is unchristian" - SALON / KATIE MCDONOUGH
Russell Moore called egalitarian marriages "false gospel" that defy the Bible … CLICK HERE TO READ:
Saturday, November 23, 2013
The Singular Waste of America's Healthcare System in 1 Remarkable Chart ~ The Atlantic
The U.S. Health Care System Is Terrible, In 1 Enraging Chart - Huffington Post
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
An Introvert’s Guide to Reality / Psychology Today / Arnie Kozak, Ph.D.
"A Theory About Why the Powerful Don't Care For the Powerless" / Psychology Today / Eric Horowitz
"George Zimmerman’s Icarus complex" - The Washington Post / Jonathan Capeheart
Fact Check: Social Security Does Not Increase the Deficit | Alternet
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Tuesday, November 19, 2013
10 Tips for Great Sex (That You Won't Find in Cosmo Magazine) | Alternet
McDonald's Advice To Underpaid Employees: Break Food Into Pieces To Keep You Full - Alternet
Pentagon Forged Financial Documents Amid Failure to Manage Budget (The Day Before 9/11 – Investigation
Monday, November 18, 2013
"Common Professions of A Narcissist" by Sam Vaknin
'This man is interesting because he is himself a self-described narcissist….somehow i respect him for being aware of himself …i suspect most narcissists would never admit to such a truth even if their life depended on it....i like this narcissist ...i say all his sins are forgiven in exchange for blowing the cover of countless creeps.'
Sam Vaknin has written in-depth, at length, about narcissism. As the remark says above, this is homage to his own awareness of this condition and its malignancy. If any psychologist, psychotherapist learns about this character and personality disorder, Vaknin is likely the most followed for his acuity, and sheer excellence in his works.
This particular video is well worth listening to, and extremely interesting.
"What Is Gaslighting"? by Sam Vaknin, author and expert about narcissism / malignant narcissism
Daily Kos: Research Study Explains How U.S. Media Brainwashes The Public
"The corruption in this country has reached such alarming levels, and the consequences when it comes to the direct harm that corruption inflicts on the population (and the world) so atrocious, that for many years now I have been wondering if the only way a population can remain so passive is if it is subjected to massive brainwashing.
Given the increasingly blunt manner in which the ruling elites continue to engage in blatant acts of corruption and oppression, born our of government and corporatist collusion, if the population were not under the control of the mind-numbing corporate media conglomerate propaganda, right now we would have the equivalent of Occupy Wall Street, ten times the size of what it was at its height…." CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING:
So You Love An Angry Person - article by Dr. Lynne Namka
Thursday, November 14, 2013
TRUTHSEEKING: No, Obama Didn't Lie to You About Your Health Care Plans | Alternet
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
To the wave coming after me….from grand children to seniors!
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
"Gang Rape in India, Routine and Visible" - from "Want to Know" / New York Tomes
2013-10-27, New York Times
Posted: 2013-11-05 08:53:34
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/27/world/asia/gang-rape-in-india-routine-and-i...
EXCELLENT! Daily Kos: "Won't Somebody Please Think Of The Children?"
The Surprising Truth About Wheat, Carbs, and Sugar – Your Brain’s Silent Killers | Alternet
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
Scientists finally admit H1N1 vaccine causes increased risk of Guillain-Barre syndrome
Thursday, October 31, 2013
"The Sankofa Bird ... and the Meaning of the Symbol"
Monday, October 28, 2013
Meet 3 Master Manipulators of America’s Oligarchy | Alternet
leave hard-working people with scraps.....CLICK HERE TO READ ARTICLE
Here’s how GOP Obamacare hypocrisy backfires - Michael Lind / Salon
GOP base doesn't understand right wants to turn Medicare, Social Security and more into a very similar program......
CLICK TO READ ARTICLE
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Consumer Alert: 300+ Health Problems Linked To Statin Drugs
The Cholesterol Myth
CLICK TO READ THIS IMPORTANT ARTICLE
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Textism: Is Spelling Over? | Alternet
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"Get Your GOP Hands Off My Medicare!" | Alternet
Backfire! GOP Hostage-Taking Boosts Obamacare's Popularity | Alternet
"Polls find Americans want more healthcare options".......“The opposition to the insurance companies is so palpable in the groups,” Greenberg said. “The biggest changes in this law is that insurance companies actually have to act like insurance companies and provide health coverage when you need it.”
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Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Doctors' Secret for How to Die Right | Alternet
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Tuesday, October 15, 2013
"The religious right is a fraud: Nothing Christian about Michele Bachmann’s values" ~ Salon
"The American right obsesses over abortion and birth control, not helping people. It's different around the globe."
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